If there’s any, one thing that men so desire when they meet a Ukrainian woman, it is femininity. Westernization has gradually eroded traditional gender roles, and while this has allowed women to become independent and employable, it has also had a disastrous effect on the feminine qualities in a woman that men love. It goes without saying that Ukraine is home to some of the most feminine women on earth. Regrettably, many Western men are so deprived of standard male-female interactions that they actually have no clue what constitutes ladylike behavior. Today, we’re addressing this issue once and for all and discussing what qualities REALLY make a woman feminine.
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Feminine Qualities in a Woman: What Are They?
If you’ve spent most of your life living in the United States, there’s a good chance you have a pretty skewed idea what “femininity” is.
Femininity is generally defined as any behavior that makes a woman…well, a woman. Unfortunately, this often leads to a rap sheet of everything that women in the United States are not.
Graciousness, the ability to be gentle, humility, and even simple beauty are all hallmarks of a feminine woman. Sadly, many women in the West believe these traits to be “oppressive.” As a result, they choose to try to mimic masculine characteristics instead.
Instead of being gentle, many women choose to be callous. Humility is rare, and many allow their egos to grow to an unhealthy level. Hell, many Western women refuse to even dress up before going on a date.
It’s a sad state of affairs in the West currently.
This is not to disparage Western women, as they’re simply victims of shifting social norms. Sadly, these are ones that make them supremely unattractive to masculine men.
In the end, however, we have to recognize that femininity generally boils down to one character trait that trounces all others.
Empathy: The #1 Feminine Quality in a Woman
Many men get it twisted and think that beauty is the most feminine quality of a woman.
Of course, a woman being physically attractive to you is possibly the most important part of finding someone you love. But, we have to remember that even the world’s most attractive women can be a real pain to hang out with unless they have a pleasant personality to go along with their looks.
Ever been to a strip club? You’ll find plenty of “attractive” women there, but most certainly you won’t find one who’s suitable for a relationship with you.
In a country like Ukraine, however, beauty levels are off the charts while women also take great care into nurturing the feminine side. You truly get the best of both worlds.
And if there is one characteristic that femininity depends on most, it is a little something called empathy.
What Is Empathy?
Empathy is the ability to understand why someone is feeling the way they are, and to relate to it. To empathize, in many ways, is to be able to put yourself in the position of someone else and “feel” their emotions.
Picture a friend who has come to you feeling sorry for themselves. Maybe they got drunk and did something stupid, and now they’re upset about it. Typical sob story.
How do you feel? Can you relate to their experience, to the point where you are also feeling upset?
Or do you simply laugh it off and say “well, tough luck bud!”
Picture two women in the same situation. They would talk for hours about how embarrassed she is, about how everyone is going to look at her differently, and they feel about the event itself.
Hours will pass. Tears may be shed. The event would end with hugs and ice cream.
You get the point.
Now, there are certainly empathetic men out there, but we have to recognize that this is inherently a female trait.
From an evolutionary perspective, it has historically been the role of men to stoically protect his family from the dangers that lurk in the outside world.
And this requires the ability to suspend one’s tendency towards empathy.
Women Evolved To Be Empathetic, Men Did Not
Men have evolved to be supremely self-interested. Occasionally, a man has to put the needs of himself (and possibly his family) before that of everything else in life, even if it causes pain to someone else.
Let’s take it back, to the tune of say, 50,000 years. Humans had evolved from Neanderthals to Homo sapiens 150,000 years prior.
Aside from the development of language and obvious technological advances, people biologically the same as they are today.
And, let’s say that as a human living 50,000 years ago, you’re hungry.
Not only are you hungry, but your family is hungry too. If you don’t get out there, grab your spear, and go take down a buffalo, you’re going to stay hungry.
And possibly die. Slowly.
Not exactly my idea of a good time, if I’m honest.
So, what does an early human do?
He would mercilessly go out and slaughter the first animal he got his hands on. Happily, he would tear it limb from limb until it dies.
He would not, for one second, feel “bad” about doing so. He’d be elated. He may even enjoy the process.
Our days of hunting buffalo with spears are long over. But, these evolved tendencies still hold true today.
Empathy In The World Today
The CEO who knows he could give his hardest working employee a raise finds himself in the same situation.
Rewarding his star playing with an extra $10,000 a year would seriously improve their life! He knows that if he were to give this employee a raise, they would have the ability to pay off their student debt, put a down payment on a house, or maybe even provide a better life for their children.
But, will the CEO give his loyal employee the raise?
Probably not.
Unless he’s faced with the choice of losing him to a competitor, something that would significantly impact the success of the business, he’s going to keep as much money as he can for himself.
The CEO has no empathy for his employee. Instead, he has other plans for this money.
He cares not for the fact an extra $10,000 would be life-changing for his best worker. Instead, he is thinking about a vacation home in Monaco to take his wife, a new Mercedes, or possibly even pumping up his daughter’s trust fund even more.
It’s this very attitude that has built businesses and created fortunes.
In fact, most men don’t even expect empathy from other men. They too just want to get to the point where they can continue the cycle of taking advantage of others themselves.
Women, however, have evolved to have a completely different outlook on their relationship with the outside world.
Empathy in Women
Now, while you’re out hunting (or in the modern-day, making some sweet cash), someone historically had to be at home watching over for the youngest members of the tribe.
Tragically, women who stay at home with their young children are scare in the West. Despite the fact that children with a great amount of contact with their mothers early in life fare far better than those who do not, Western culture has instead decided that women are better off in the boardroom than in the nursery.
It goes without saying that this is weird and unnatural. In fact, it’s evidence of everything wrong with femininity in the West right now.
The ability to give birth is the hallmark trait of a woman, and yet this is hardly a biological reality alone. The fact is, most children are entirely dependent on their mothers for the first 14 years of their life.
That’s 14 years of emotional ups and downs, successes, failures, years, hugs, and all the other gushy good stuff that goes along with raising a kid.
Just as men have evolved to be stoic and have the suspend the need to understand the emotions of someone else, women have evolved to be masters of emotions, understanding, and empathy.
Why do you think that women are the primary consumers of sappy romantic films and soap operas?
Did you know that women the group that predominately votes for candidates on the left that support social welfare programs that encourage everyone to be taken care of?
Why have women historically always been most visible in jobs like primary school teachers, pediatricians, and nannies?
It’s easy. Because they have empathy.
Their ability to understand the feelings of others is far more evolved than that of a man.
Now, who do you think is going to be more effective when arguing with a 5-year-old about why they can’t have ice cream for dinner?
It is the bloodthirsty man who’s evolved to take down beasts of the African Savannah, or the gentle, empathetic woman whose evolved to look after children?
I think you know the answer to this one.
This is why it’s normal for most young guys to think of their Dad as kind of an “asshole” while worshipping the ground their mothers walk on. It is only with age that most men begin to realize that their father’s crudeness was necessary from time to time in contrast to their mother’s warmth.
In fact, it is that same warmth that many modern women are supremely lacking in.
Empathy in a Modern Woman
Unfortunately, empathy seems to be the very first aspect of feminity that has gone out the window.
An empathetic woman would understand why her boyfriend would make a small request, such as asking her to cook him dinner.
“He works really hard,” she thinks to herself.
“The least I can do is make him something tasty to eat.”
That is the default response of an empathetic woman. No begrudging agreements, dramatic sighing or rolled eyes would dare take place here.
And, as I’m sure you can guess, such pleasantries are not the default response of most Western women.
Sadly, women today are taught that they should instead try to be everything a man should be instead of nurturing their feminine nature. Women are taught to be cold, unfeeling, and honestly just rather masculine in their interactions. They would rather be the CEO than the supportive wife.
They would rather fulfill the lavish fantasy of the eternal bachelorette instead of the proven archetype of the mother.
Tragically, they fail to realize that no amount of white wine and Sex and the City reruns can compensate for the emptiness that accompanies failing to fulfill her biological purpose.
She is strong, independent, and ridiculously unpleasant to spend time around. Despite the fact that pregnancy after 35 is difficult and downright dangerous after 40, she remains unswayed in her cultural programming.
Don’t forget (she won’t let you, anyway): it’s all about her. If you don’t understand that, then you must not be “man” enough.
Let’s be honest here. No man wants to deal with a cold, snippy girl who refuses to engage in any activity that is done for the expressed pleasure of her significant other.
Ask her to cook a simple meal, and you’ve committed the crime of the century. At best, you’ll get a takeaway pizza. At worst, you’ll get a MeToo allegation.
The majority of men (even though they would never admit it) would much rather have a kind, supportive woman at home who can cook delicious meals and would be a good mother than a “strong, independent woman” who’s fundamentally disagreeable, entitled and cold.
That is 100% not to say that women should not go to university, find careers they enjoy and do as they please in life. Somehow, demanding that a woman engages in basic pleasantries has become sexist. Go figure.
The good news is that, interestingly enough, not all women are like that.
In fact, Ukrainian women are quite the opposite.
Not All Women Are Like That
In Ukraine, for example, women tend to do all of these things at once. It was a Communist country where everyone was forced to work for nearly 100 years, after all. The idea of a working woman is not shied away from in Ukraine. But, it is a country where relationships and family come first.
While many Ukrainian girls wish to study and work, many of them jump at the opportunity of being a stay a home mother if given the chance.
In the meantime, they make themselves infinitely marriageable to any man with a shred of common sense. I’ve met Ukrainian women dating men who are total losers, and even still, they are happy to cook, clean, and do whatever is necessary to make their husbands of boyfriends happy.
Think about it: there are lesser men out there enjoying the company of beautiful, feminine Ukrainian women while you sit at home thinking “what if.”
If I’m honest, the real tragedy here is that you’re not meeting them.
Pro tip: If you’re interested in meeting Ukrainian women, I highly suggest you check out this website.
Your Evolution As a Man: You Begin To Crave Feminine Qualities in a Woman
Most men don’t just randomly wake up one day and decide to move to a place like Ukraine. Often times, it’s one decision in a long series of choices that a man starts to make for himself as he ventures on the path of self-improvement.
As a man begins to consciously work to improve his circumstances, he is forced to confront masculinity that has been repressed by Western society for his entire life.
Let’s take an average man who is tired of losing in life.
He was picked on in his childhood, experienced little success with women growing up, and has now reached an adulthood whose highlight is to spend the next 40 years working for a menial wage at an uninspiring job.
Eventually, he’s had enough. He’s ready to make a change.
He starts lifting weights to improve his physicality. He starts reading a few books about how to improve his interactions with women. Who knows, maybe he will even start an online business.
One night, while after pulling a 13+ hour workday, he’s realized that there’s nothing in his house to eat. He’s been so laser-focused on building an additional income stream that he’s forgotten to eat.
All of the restaurants around his tiny apartment are closed, and he thinks a thought to himself that forever changes his interactions with the opposite sex…
“Wow, I really wish I had a nice girl to cook me a meal right now.”
He freezes. “That’s sexist,” he thinks to himself.
But, is it really?
He thinks back to his childhood, where his grandmother was always with cooked for her whole family. She did so, happily even. She wasn’t the best cook, but the fact that it was her that was doing it made it special.
His father once told him that, even though his grandmother was a nurse, she would always have dinner on the table for his grandfather when he got home.
He even joked that his grandmother’s cooking was the only thing that kept him alive after working in a factory for 12 hours a day.
“Man…why can’t I have that. I’ve been working all damn night. It would literally cost me money to stop now. This makes 0 sense.”
Later that night, he Googles “Feminine Qualities in a Woman.”
He stumbles upon this exact blog and starts to realize that there are countries where women still take pride in doing simple things, such as cooking delicious food for the men they love.
He plans a trip to Kyiv later that year. The rest is history.
How To Meet Feminine Women
I hate to break it to you…but femininity is in short supply in the West.
But you already nkow that.
I don’t care if you live in the United States, Canada, the U.K., or even Australia. Every developed country on earth has internalized some very hardcore, feminist ideologies that would be considered crazy as little as 50 years ago.
Don’t believe me? Ask a girl you’re seeing to cook you dinner. Tell her you are working 12 hour days all week, that you’re laser-focused on building a better life, and just need a little help.
Everyone needs a little help sometimes, especially a man who’s working hard to be his best in life.
See what happens.
You might get lucky with this once, maybe even twice. But the third time, she’ll start explaining to you that making Craft Mac N’ Cheese out of the box is simply too much work and that it’s sexist you ask her to engage in a task that’s…oh I don’t know…necessary for sustaining human life.
The cold, hard truth of the matter is that if you want a feminine woman, you need to cut out all the bullshit and start looking abroad.
Don’t waste your time trying to find a needle in a haystack. Instead, just start looking in a place that’s literally filled to the brim with beautiful, feminine women.
Best of all, you certainly don’t have to hop on a plane in order to do so. Hell, you don’t even have to leave your house anymore.
But how, you ask?
Simple. Go online.
Meet Feminine Ukrainian Women Online
If you want to start meeting feminine women, I suggest you check out Ukraine Date.
Ukraine Date is a niche dating website that’s completely different than any other service in existence. Forget about garbage like Tinder, as this is a website that’s truly in a class of its own.
The app serves as a way of connecting beautiful, feminine Ukrainian women with men just like you.
Ukrainian culture never saw feminism take hold. It’s a country that has been shielded from the social changes that have made Western women undateable, and definitely unmarriageable.
Even if you’re just slightly curious about what Ukrainian women are like, signing up for an account is completely free and requires no obligation whatsoever.
Conclusion: Feminine Qualities In A Woman Are Easy To Find…If You Know Where To Look!
It’s a tough world we live in today, and it’s getting harder every year to find someone special. This is one area of life where it doesn’t pay to wait. None of us are getting any younger, after all.
In the end, the choice is yours. You can to deal with unfeminine, difficult women in the West, or take your dating life to the next level by dating feminine Ukrainian women.
And if you’re reading this website, I think I know which choice you’re going to make.
So, what are you waiting for? Get out there and meet the girl of your dreams.
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