The Ultimate Guide To Getting Laid in Ukraine

Sometimes in life, you’ve just gotta cut straight to the chase. While many men are interested in visiting Ukraine for travel, adventure, or even finding a longterm relationship, others are simply interested in seeing what it takes to get a hot Ukrainian girl into bed. Believe it or not, however, becoming intimate with a Ukrainian girl can be a bit of a challenge for someone who is new to Eastern Europe. Fortunately for you, we’re sparing no expense and getting straight to the bottom of an issue that plenty of guys want to know the answer to. Today, we’re discussing how to get laid in Ukraine.

Be sure to read every word of this article, as we’re laying out a step-by-step guide that we’ve used plenty of times to achieve victory in Ukraine.

But for starters, we have to debunk one myth that’s particularly false…

Rule #1: Ukrainian Women and Sex: Getting Laid in Ukraine Isn’t Easy, But Is Possible!

I really can’t stress this point enough.

Many people seem to have the idea that simply buying a plane ticket to Kyiv and waving around a Western passport will immediately grant them an unlimited supply of cute Ukrainian girls.

What you have to keep in mind here is that Ukrainian women are some of the highest quality on the entire earth. They’re a pedigree, like everything that a woman should be, but usually isn’t. They’re beautiful, gracious, and willing to let her man run the show.

And, the best women on earth don’t just share their bodies with any random man.

It takes a bit of work…and that’s fine.

Get Used To The Three Date Rule

There’s nothing wrong with going on three dates with a girl before you get into bed with her. It’s a good thing. More women should have the values that Ukrainian girls do.

But, let’s also not act like sex is some foreign concept to Ukrainian girls. While most girls in Ukraine are far from promiscuous, they’re not prudish either. If you follow the rules we lay out here today, you will maximize your chances of sleeping with a Ukrainian woman.

Compared with more Westernized countries, the time that it takes from meeting a girl to sleeping with her is definitely longer in Ukraine. That’s not to say that one night stands are not possible, especially if you maximize your options using dating apps.

But, just because you may not experience sex as soon as you meet a girl does not mean that it is off the table.

In fact, this is one area of life where if you just put in some time and a little bit of effort, you will be greatly rewarded.

I promise you that.

Do The Work: The Three Date & Seduction

Dating in Ukraine is an integral part of the seduction process.

Before a girl sleeps with a new man, she’s going to want to spend a little bit of time with him. One night stands are not as common as in countries like Sweden, Norway, the UK, or Germany.

It’s during this courtship process that she’ll likely be asking you why you’re in Ukraine, what you think of the country and what your plans are for the future. She’ll be feeling you out to see if you fit the archetype of being a “good guy” that she can maybe build a relationship with.

Fortunately for you, the dating process in Ukraine is relatively straightforward. If a girl agrees to go on a date with you, she’s interested. Ukrainian girls are not afraid to turn away men they don’t like. They play infinitely fewer games than American women.

It’s Not Rocket Science

Getting laid in Ukraine can be broken down into a simple, three-date formula. This formula is to be applied from the first time you meet a new girl, to the time when you hopefully get her into bed.

While the three-date formula is not always 100% accurate, you can generally expect it to take roughly three dates to sleep with a normal girl from Ukraine.

Granted, the sluttiest Ukrainian women who you meet online or at night may take far less time than this. But, these chances are fewer and farther between than simply going on dates with normal girls.

Date #1: Meet at a coffee shop, or go for a short walk through the town center.

This is a great first date, as it allows you a quick way of seeing if you actually like spending time with the girl or not. If you don’t quite jive with her, you can quickly bail on a coffee date. But, if you’re in Ukraine, you probably won’t be having this problem.

In cities like Lviv, going on walking dates can really be quite a memorable experience as the town is simply breathtaking. Even in Kyiv, which is far more industrialized, you’ll have no shortage of interesting places to walk.

Ukrainian girls love walking, so do not be surprised if she suggests you just go for a stroll around a local park while you talk and get to know each other. This is actually a common first date in Ukraine, believe it or not.

Seriously. A simple walk. Can you imagine?

To be fair, this is largely because most Ukrainian men are broke and cannot afford to take them out for cocktails. But, don’t discount it as an option either.

Going for a walk is a standard first date in Ukraine. Go along with it.

It’s during this time that you should simply let go and enjoy yourself. Stop at a kiosk and buy a coffee. Pay for hers. Always.

Ask each other questions about your family life, what you studied in school, and what your goals are for the future.

I try to limit these to one hour at most, and possibly even line up a few on the same day. Doing so allows you to maximize the number of women you meet in a short timeframe.

This is a low-pressure type of meetup. While I would suggest being slightly physical by perhaps touching her wrist if you’re sitting a table together, or maybe even casually resting your hand on her knee from time to time, this is not meant to be a sexually charged type of interaction.

You don’t want to come across as being too horny on your first date. Initiate physical contact in a light, playful manner. Remember, this isn’t America where a Tinder date can quickly turn into a hookup in 20 minutes.

It’s important to always try to go for the kiss near the end of this date. Just a simple kiss on the lips. Nothing crazy.

If she turns her cheek to you when you try to kiss her, do not worry. This is common among all Ukrainian women to reject the first advance that man makes on her. She’ll likely be playful in doing so, so don’t take it personally. Enjoy yourself.

You could say she’s “testing you” here to see just how badly you want it. Most Ukrainian women want a strong gentlemen type of man. While he will stop when he has to, he’s not afraid to go after what he wants.

In fact, if she smiles while she’s turning her cheek to you, don’t hesitate to try a few more times before your date is over.

Most of the time, she eventually gives in, and you’ve completed step #1 of getting laid in Ukraine.

I generally always try to land a kiss on the first date. If you don’t, it’s not the end of the world, but this is always a good goal to shoot for.

Plus, it gives you an indication that it’s time to turn things up a bit on your second date.

Date #2: Go out for a drink at a cocktail bar.

The second date is generally where you want to get a small amount of alcohol involved.

Remember, I said small.

You must keep in mind that most Ukrainian girls don’t drink too much. Heavy alcohol consumption has been a net negative for Ukraine. Many have watched their fathers struggle with alcoholism, and it’s left a bad impression on most young Ukrainian women.

Generally speaking, show her that you like to drink, but not to excess.

That being said, most Ukrainian girls will enjoy a cocktail or a glass of wine with no reservations. But, don’t expect to get her drunk and turn her into a different person like a girl would in the West.

Even still, I use my second date as an opportunity to visit a nice cocktail bar. Chances are if she’s a local Ukrainian girl, she’s not used to visiting establishments that are a little bit more upscale such as a cool bar where you can get a mojito, a cosmopolitan or an old fashioned.

If she’s never had a cocktail before, help her pick one. Ask her what she likes, and try to make a guess based on the little bit you know about her. Make it fun. If she doesn’t like the one, don’t be afraid to order another. They’ll likely be less than $6 each, anyways.

I’d generally say to limit yourself to 2-3 cocktails here, but you be the judge of this. On your second date, it’s most important to try to get more physical than you could on your first date.

Think about it: the girl has already spent a few hours with you. She gave you her contact information and has agreed to meet with you twice.

She’s clearly interested. Don’t be afraid to get physical with her.

At your cocktail bar of choice, I always advise men to look for places that have bench seating where you can sit next to each other instead of perched at a bar or in two separate chairs.

Sitting directly next to one another allows for greater options for physical contact, and makes it less awkward if you want to place a hand on her back, her leg, or to play with her hair.

If you’re totally new to this, try putting your hand on her shoulder or thigh when you’re placing emphasis on something you’re saying. Do this a few times when telling a story, but eventually continue to rest your hand there after you’ve finished speaking.

Gradually escalate to the point where lightly touching her is no big deal, and it’s something she responds to positively.

It’s important not to go overboard here, especially if she’s a younger girl who is inexperienced with men. If the girl reacts negatively to you touching her, you should refrain from doing so as much.

That doesn’t mean to never put a hand on her shoulder, whisper something in her ear, or even playfully kick her foot under the table. But, it does mean you may have to tone things down.

Remember: be a strong gentleman. Be receptive to her desires, but unafraid of showing what you want.

Turn Up The Heat…If You Can

On the other hand, your second date could turn into a makeout session. This is ideal, as hopefully you’ll have landed the kiss on the first date, have initiated physical contact that she’s comfortable with, and are feeling a nice buzz from a good cocktail or two.

Enjoy these moments, as they’re some of the best I’ve ever had. The tension is a little bit high, and you both like each other. Remember that experiences with dating foreign women are some of the most fun you may experience in life.

If your girl is practically slobbering all over you, you can certainly try to escalate things by bringing her back to your house. I generally don’t do this, unless I’m out with a particularly slutty girl who I get the feeling is “easy.”

Most regular girls are still not going to sleep with you at this point, even if you’re making out. Finish your cocktails off, and go for a short walk around town. Better yet, tell her you want to walk her back to her house to make sure she gets home safely.

Little acts of chivalry like this are of the utmost importance in Ukraine. This will show her that you’re not just trying to get her in bed…even if that’s your main goal.

All in all, these two dates set the stage for what is ideally your third date with her: a dinner & movie at your place.

Date #3: Dinner & A Movie At Your Place

If you haven’t already noticed, this is where you finally seal the deal.

Ukraine is one country where it pays to be a man who knows how to cook.

Most men in Ukraine scoff at the idea of cooking. There is no Ukrainian Gordan Ramsey or Anthony Bourdain who has made it a cool, masculine thing to do. But, all the girls have seen these guys on TV and absolutely eat it up.

I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve gotten to come back to my house by offering to cook them a basic meal. Many of them have never had a man cook for them, ever. It’s often little more than a simple pasta dish, but to them, it is as if they are eating at the world’s finest restaurant.

Now, I have a good bit of experience cooking, so this is second nature to me. If you’re not the kind of guy who particularly enjoys cooking, you can choose to omit the “dinner” section of this date. That being said, if you do know anything about making a basic meal, it’s a huge point of attraction to Ukrainian women.

A girl agreeing to come to your home in Ukraine is kind of a big deal. In fact, don’t be surprised if many of the girls that you meet are hesitant towards coming to your apartment, even if it’s only for a minute to get an umbrella or a jacket. If a girl comes to your house, she’s probably considered having sex with you already.

That doesn’t mean it’s guaranteed, but in many ways, it is implied.

The dinner & a movie date is where you ideally attempt to seal the deal. It’s a fantastic opportunity to get comfortable, share a bottle of wine, play some nice music, and just enjoy your time together.

Plus, cooking brings with it a whole host of opportunities to get physical and interact. Experiment by making light demands, saying things like “Hey, go get me that towel over there so I can wipe the countertop.”

Better yet, you can even “teach” her to cook a little bit by employing her to do basic tasks such as chopping up vegetables or setting the table. Don’t think you need to go overboard here and turn her into your assistant, but women generally enjoy having a strong man who they’re attracted to show his dominance over her, even in a tiny way like this.

Seal The Deal

At this point, you’ve both had a few glasses of wine. Some nice music from a YouTube playlist is playing from your laptop in the background. You’re both in a comfortable, private apartment that is most likely nicer than the one she’s grown up in. Better yet, you’re both working on something together.

If you two truly connect, you could totally burn the meal and ruin it, and still have a fun time together getting a takeout pizza. The purpose of this date is not to highlight your culinary skills, but rather to have a good time together in a private environment with a little bit of alcohol to loosen things up.

After you finish eating, do the dishes, and turn on a movie on your apartment television. It pays to travel with a basic HDMI cord that hooks up to the television in your Airbnb, and having a few movies downloaded on your hard drive that are ready to go.

If you’re staying at a hotel, you could alternatively just go somewhere for dinner and try to get her back to your room, but that’s far more of a stretch in my opinion. I generally suggest guys that are looking to go to Ukraine for the purposes of connecting with women get a nice Airbnb instead.

Turn the movie on, dim the lights, and cuddle up under a blanket. At this point, it’s up to you to seal the deal. But, what I will say is that if a girl has volunteered to go along with all of the above steps, you likely won’t face much resistance if you take her to your bedroom afterward.

That, my friends, is the three-date formula for getting laid in Ukraine.

How To Meet Ukrainian Girls

Now, I know you’re probably thinking “How do I get dates in a foreign country without ever being there?”

Good question. Even if you don’t know a single soul in Ukraine, you can start chatting with Ukrainian women today with the help of the internet.

You absolutely have to use online dating apps prior to arriving in Ukraine if you want to maximize your chances of success. Sure, you can immediately hit the streets as soon as you land, and make it your job to meet girls. In fact, I suggest you do this a few times just for the experience.

But, by only relying on meeting girls in person, you’re missing out on plenty of opportunities to connect with single Ukrainian girls who are interested in dating a foreigner.

Here’s how you REALLY do it…

Meet Ukrainian Girls Online: The Key To Getting Laid in Ukraine

Think about it: only 10% of girls you meet anywhere will be attracted to you and interested in dating. Of that 10%, many will be in relationships already, will have recently broken up and won’t be interested in dating, or might just be in a bad mood.

Women are weird creatures. You can do everything right, and they still might say no. So it goes.

Take it from someone who loves meeting girls in person: using dating apps is crucial to getting laid in Ukraine. It’s a total numbers game, and by using online dating, you’re significantly bumping up your chances of being successful.

While there are a whole host of websites out there, I recommend signing up for an account with our personal favorite, Ukraine Date. We like it so much that we even did a full review on the site.

Ukraine Date totally blows apps like Tinder out of the water. Best of all, signing up for an account is completely free. Even if you’re just slightly curious about Ukrainian girls, I highly suggest checking it out.

Meeting Ukrainian Girls in Person

While we’re huge advocates of using dating websites to meet Ukrainian girls, we also strongly suggest approaching Ukrainian women once you’ve arrived in Ukraine.

Here are a few tips on doing just that!

Meeting Ukrainian Girls During the Day

Ukraine is something of a paradise for approaching girls in person during the daytime.

Girls in Ukraine appreciate straightforward masculinity, and many expect men to walk up to them during the day to start a conversation. While this activity is frowned upon in many places, Ukraine is not one of these places.

The easiest way to get started meeting Ukrainian girls during the day is with one simple but effective line…

“Excuse me, do you speak English?”

These six words essentially give you permission to start talking to any girl you may see. The most straightforward path forward here is to ask for help in locating something such as a monument, a metro station, or a supermarket. Gradually hint at the fact that you’re traveling from somewhere else, and spark up a conversation from here.

We’ve covered meeting Ukrainian women during the day rather extensively in our post on Ukrainian dating culture. Check it out if you’re interested in sharpening up your day game abilities!

Night Game in Ukraine

To be perfectly upfront, Ukraine is not necessarily the best country for using night game or meeting girls at night.

While it is entirely possible to do so, Ukraine isn’t known for its nightlife when compared to other cities. On top of that, Ukraine is very much a table service type of country. Unlike in a place like Serbia, most Ukrainians prefer to sit at a table instead of milling around socializing in an American style bar.

Even still, I suggest you go out, hit the bars, and approach women at night. Your model for Ukrainian night game can be very similar to that used during the day, if not slightly more direct.

Feel free to utilize the “do you speak English” opener in the nightclub or when passing a group of pretty girls on the street. The beauty of approaching at night, however, is that you can be more direct.

If you want to learn more about meeting Ukrainian girls at night, check out our guide to Ukrainian night game.

The Problems With Only Meeting Girls In Person

The problem with relying only on meeting girls in person is you likely have a limited amount of time in the country. Realistically, you could turn up to Ukraine, approach 100 women in real life, and still go home empty-handed.

It’s frustrating, I know. This is exactly why you must diversify your approach.

By contrast, if you use a dating app, you’ll have pre-screened for girls that are attractive, single, and interested in meeting you. It goes without saying that this skyrockets your chances of success of getting laid in Ukraine.

I’m all about maximizing my chances of success in every possible area when I’m going after something I want. By using a combination of dating apps, daytime approaches, and night game, you’re covering “land, sea, and sky.”

Do this, and success with Ukrainian women will be in your near future.

Conclusion: Is It Possible To Get Laid in Ukraine?

Getting laid in Ukraine is 100% possible, provided you’re willing to put in a little bit of time.

And, you will find that the time you invest will pay off hugely in the future. Unlike with a Western woman who you may just want to sleep with once, a Ukrainian woman truly keeps you coming back for more. They’re that good. Seriously.

Who knows…you might never even leave the country. You may laugh now, but plenty of guys are more than willing to drop everything and relocate to Eastern Europe after getting a little taste of the local talent.

To recap, the exact steps to getting laid in Ukraine go as follows:

• Pipeline matches before arriving using dating apps.
• Approach both at night & during the day using the above tips.
• Follow the three-date formula, have a private apartment to go back to.
• Schedule dates multiple girls in case one prospect fails.
• Rinse & repeat.

If you follow the above formula, there’s a very good chance you will eventually get laid over the course of a few weeks. Depending on how skillful you are, you could potentially even pull this off in a few days.

The main points that this program seeks to capitalize on are maximizing your chances of meeting a girl using in-person game and dating websites, showing that you’re willing to put in three dates with a girl, and trying it with multiple women concurrently.

And, there you have it. Our formula for successfully getting laid in Ukraine. While it may not be the easiest task in the world, it is 100% possible to do.

So, what are you waiting for? Get out there and make it happen.